Gutter Wisdom
Gutter Wisdom is the podcast for the capable, complex human who followed the rules — and still wasn’t prepared for what happens when comfort falls apart.
How you sex is how you live.
If you’re compromised in the bedroom, you’re likely compromised everywhere else. A compromised sex life is a compromised life life.
Hosted by Priestess Francesca, a professional Dominatrix, former HVAC engineer, and trauma-informed sexologist, this show dismantles the wall between your erotic life and your real life.
Born and raised in Brooklyn, Francesca spent over a decade living a double life: engineering HVAC systems for New York City skyscrapers by day, and commanding high-stakes scenes in the dungeon by night. From mechanical rooms to the erotic underground, she discovered that human beings operate just like the systems she engineered — if you ignore pressure valves and hidden friction points, eventually, the whole thing blows.
That’s why we don’t do goddess platitudes or dry clinical lectures. We use sexuality as the ultimate diagnostic lens to examine the mechanics of your life. We take the skills required in the dark (negotiation, sensation, boundaries, and surrender) and engineer them into protocols for your daily reality.
Because let’s be honest: everything is harder when you’re naked. And if you can learn to hold your ground and stay present during an intense scene in the bedroom, the boardroom doesn’t stand a chance.
Expect episodes on:
- Somatic literacy (and why “regulating” your nervous system is often just a fancy way to bypass your feelings)
- The psychology of kink, power dynamics, and BDSM
- Navigating trauma, shadow, and desire without the fluff
- Real-world stories from the construction site to the dungeon to the C-suite
It’s time to stop performing and start living. It’s time to engineer your liberation.
Start here:
Discover your erotic baseline by taking the Engineering Hotness Quiz:
https://www.priestessfrancesca.com/quiz